At this stage in my life “catching feelings is a NO”, I am working hard on myself and trying to adjust to single life and all its perks. Sometimes even with the greatest intentions your feelings get involved and you end up getting hurt, so I wanted to share this experience and hopefully it helps you guys understand its ok to fall for someone, but as soon as they prove they don’t deserve you MOVE THE FUCK ON! To many people let the opposite sex, take advantage and treat them bad, my rules are simple if you don’t match the effort I put in ill be telling you “BOY BYE” Let’s start at the beginning, I knew what I was getting into with this man he wasn’t right for me and had only cruel intentions as he reminded me often. I told myself daily do not get emotionally involved, but sometimes you just fall for someone and there is no real explanation, the best part is there are great men in my life that are good, but no Becca fell for a bad boy! When I realised, I had caught the dreaded feelings, I spoke to friends and they all told me to stay clear, but ladies we have all had that one guy who just makes us bin all logic and dive in head first.
How do we remain powerful when someone intentionally or unintentionally hurts us? Simple you remind yourself of your worth, you look directly in the mirror and say you deserve better than what is being offered here. Keep your dignity and don’t lash out, let things fizzle out naturally and don’t cause any hurt to the other person because that’s when all Power is lost. Put the focus back on yourself, workout, eat well, spend time with friends, go on dates anything to make you that’s with Mr Wrong is not where you should be.
Should you give him another chance? I will give the same advice I gave myself and would give to my friends, HELL TO THE NO! I am a strong believer that men and women only need to show there intentions once to give you and insight into what kind of person they are. Move on, it might be hard when you really care about someone but trust me in the long run you will save time, tears and a shit load of self-worth.
Be thankful for the lessons they taught you! Remember just because someone hurt you doesn’t mean that was their plan, people deal with emotions in all different ways. Move on but think of what they taught you, maybe it was how to laugh, maybe it was how to be stronger. For whatever reason they came into your life to shape you in some way so allow that.
Becca’s Top Tips for moving on from Mr Wrong!
1.) Focus on yourself, keep busy and remember literally there is plenty more fish in the sea!
2.) Don’t go backwards, move on and trust you have made the correct decision.
3.) Never forget Mr Right will come along you just have to kiss a few frogs to find him!
Sometimes there simply is not enough hours in the day between work, family, housework & blogging. It all gets a little bit fast. I want a watch not only to count minutes but to be in the minute. When @Jordwatches contacted me I was beyond honoured. As always, I researched their products and really looked into what they stand for. It was a no-brainer for me. Classic time pieces made with real wood, a true gift from nature. The service this company provides is like nothing else. To find the correct size they have a printable measuring tape to make sure you get the perfect fit. JORD Watches also have a wide range of watches to browse. There is a watch to match each individual style. Get ready, because it won’t be long until your beautiful wooden creation will arrive.
I found it very hard to choose one watch from the list I was sent. They were all so stunning. I chose the Frankie-35-Dark Sandalwood & Mint. I love this watch because mint is one of my go-to colours when it comes to jewellery. The watch is made from 100% natural, hand-finished woods. It has a metallic dial with contrasting accent and a sapphire crystal glass face. The ultra-slim design makes the watch feel very feminine and chic. Having a watch made from wood really made me want to get outdoors and submerge myself in my surroundings. The box alone is a thing of wonder. You all know I am a lover of packaging and this ticks all the boxes. Fresh, clean and most importantly, natural. The lid has magnets built in, which makes it feel secure and there is an inbuilt drawer for the watches manuals. You could keep the box as a make up room accessory in itself.
I love wearing my JORD watch on its own or adding some special accessories I have had in my collection for the longest time. There is nothing you cannot match these watches with. Boohoo, chic or classy lady, I dare you not to find a watch to match your style. I love the way it feels against my skin, so soft and a constant reminder that nature is all around us. There is nothing better than mixing a statement fashion item with nature and JORD Watches have hit the apple out of the tree on that note.
To top off my amazing experience with JORD Watches, I was able to have my watch engraved. I had my watch engraved with “Becca Blogger – Having the time of my life”. I wondered how it would look when it came but I couldn’t have been happier. The engraving looks so classy on the back of the watch face and adds a lovely personal touch to a time piece I will cherish for the rest of my life. Here is a link to the amazing engraving service that JORD Watches offer: https://www.woodwatches.com/watch-engraving
In partnership with JORD watches, I have a very special give away let you know about. The lucky winner will win $100 towards a JORD Watch and a free engraving service with JORD Watches. For anyone who enters, they will get a $25 gift code to use on the JORD Watches website. This is an amazing opportunity so I would urge anyone who has read this blog to enter and be in with the chance of getting your hands on one of these beautiful watches. Simply click this link and fill in your details to enter: https://www.woodwatches.com/g/beccablogger
I would like to thank JORD Watches for gifting me this beautiful watch and showing fantastic customer service throughout the whole process. Please see the links below for more information about JORD Watches products and engraving service.
Lots of love
Becca Blogger xxx
JORD Watches Engraving Service